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Long Versus Short... The Struggle is Real

Although there are plenty of middle aged women who choose keep their hair long, trends show that the majority of women in fact do cut their hair into a shorter style as they grow older. Many things happen for both men and women in their forties. It’s a transitional decade. When people turn forty, essentially they are at the mid-life point. The mid-life point tends to leave people pondering what the next forty years will bring. Women begin to think about their aging bodies and how they will carry themselves along the way. Hair is such a big part of our appearance and it’s also a big contributor to how old one appears to be. There is a lot to be said for ‘aging gracefully’ but does that mean that if you are a woman you must cut your hair into a short style? Hairfinder says absolutely not!
 
Why do Women of a Certain Age Cut their Hair?
 
Women of a mature age find that cutting their hair shorter can be a rather liberating experience, a badge of honor, if you will. Various women, particularly over the age of forty five view the cutting of their long hair as a rite of passage. They feel that they have earned their right to wear a short style much like the women who proudly let their non-pigmented hair (grey hair) shine.
 
Middle-aged woman with long hair and wearing glasses By the time a number of women hit their forties, more than likely they have spent the majority of their lives, so far with hair on the longer side of length. When you have spent a large chunk of your time styling, shampooing, combing and just dealing with long hair it can be energizing and freeing to not have to deal with all of the work that comes along with having and maintaining long hair. An explanation as to why some women cut their hair shorter in their forties is simply, they have had long hair for the first forty-some-odd years and now they plan to have a shorter, much more manageable hair style for the next forty years.
 
Unfortunately peer pressure does not go away just because you are a woman of a certain age. Most women feel a sense of social pressure to cut their long hair into a shorter style as they get older, whether they actually go through with it or not, the pressure is real. Some ladies are just not sure what to do with their hair as they grow older, they look around and see that the majority of the women their age have short hair and so they decide to make the plunge and go for it.
 
Let’s be honest, all that long hair is a lot of work. It simply is easier to maintain a shorter hair style. Some women look for a wash and go style because there comes a point in your life when your time is of greater value than putting effort into attempting to be the most attractive gal in the room. Time becomes more important than most all other things, aside from health. There comes a point in a woman’s life when she just doesn’t want to waste precious time curling, flat ironing, teasing, crimping or round brushing her hair.
 
Let’s be real, people in their forties are at mid-life. It’s the time when certain men go out and get a sports car and likewise, some women chop off their hair. It’s a way to legally rebel against obligation and the mundaneness that life can sometimes bring. For a woman who has had long hair her entire life and decides to cut it finally has the chance to do something unpredictable and spontaneous and even a little rebellious in some way.
 
Just like people in their forties are going through a transition time in their life, the hair also goes through a transition. That’s right, hair changes as you age. As a woman gets older, the hair changes its initial texture and begins to lose its pigment. Alas, one of the down falls to aging is that women are finding that they have to choose between either coloring their hair or changing their length. It is advised not to have long grey hair –unless of course, it’s Halloween. If you want to keep your color natural and let your beautiful grey shine, then it is best to keep it shoulder length or shorter. If you desire to keep your length long, then you need to find a flattering hair color to compliment the length.
 
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