Being a Hair School Model
I know she’s pretty talented. She’s very fashion-forward, always has cool short haircuts, and I really do like her personal style. But cutting off my long hair was never something I had planned. I can’t even picture myself with short hair, let alone imagine sitting in the chair as a hair school model.
Can you give me an idea of the pros and cons? I’m torn about whether I should do it.
Potential Benefits:
First and foremost, you’d be doing something amazing for your friend. She needs a model to complete an important part of her education, and knowing she can count on someone she trusts could be a huge stress reliever for her. Plus, you'll probably get some extra care and attention since she wants to do her absolute best.
You’ll also get a free haircut, and not just a basic trim. These would normally cost a good amount at a salon, especially when you’re getting precision cuts like a bob or a pixie. Since you already admire her sense of style and you trust her skills, you’re in good hands.
Trying a short haircut could also be a refreshing change. Sometimes the best transformations happen when we least expect them. A fresh new look might even boost your confidence and open up different hair options you’ve never considered before. And remember, short hair can be incredibly stylish, easy to manage, and super freeing once you get used to it.
Plus, stepping outside your comfort zone is almost always a personal growth moment. Whether you end up loving the new look or simply appreciating the experience, you’ll be challenging yourself in a really powerful way.
Of course, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Cutting your long hair is a huge change, and it’s not something that can be undone overnight. If you end up missing your long hair, it could take a long time - sometimes a few years - to fully grow it back.
There's also the emotional attachment to consider. A lot of people don’t realize how connected they are to their hair until it’s gone. That emotional reaction can be surprising and even overwhelming at times, so it’s good to mentally prepare yourself.
Different haircuts flatter different face shapes and hair textures. While you love how short hair looks on your friend, it might look and feel different on you. Not worse, just different. It's a good idea to have an open conversation with your friend about what specific bob and pixie styles she envisions for you, and whether she can tweak them to best suit you.
Also, since you’re modeling for two tests, your hair journey will have two stages: first the bob, and then shortly after, an even shorter pixie cut. So you’ll be committing to multiple big changes in a short span of time. That can feel like a lot!
Don’t forget the practical side too. Short hair often means learning new styling techniques and using different hair products. You might need to invest in things like sprays, pomades, or a small flat iron. It’s not necessarily harder to style, but it is different.
If you've been even a little curious about trying short hair - and you trust your friend’s skills - this could be an amazing opportunity. But don’t let guilt or pressure make the decision for you. It's your hair. If your gut says you’re ready for an adventure, go for it. If you feel deep down that you’re not ready for such a big change, it’s okay to say no.
Either way, your friendship can stay strong if you're honest about your feelings. And who knows? If you decide to say yes, you might discover a side of yourself you absolutely love.
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See also:
How to get free or cheap haircuts
Talents and skills to become a good hairdresser