Reason for not Graying
People (other than my stylist) think that I dye it. I am embarrassed by the looks I get when I say it is my natural color. Is there a reason for not graying? I would appreciate any help you can give.
Dermatologists often refer to the "50-50-50 rule". By age 50, about 50% of the population has at least 50% gray hair. By age 82, having a full head of naturally dark brown hair places you in a very small, elite percentage of genetic outliers.
As for the reasons behind your hair color, it comes down to the biology of your scalp. Hair gets its color from cells called melanocytes, which inject pigment into the hair strand as it grows. For most people, these cells gradually slow down and die off as they age. In your case, your genetics have gifted you with incredibly resilient melanocyte stem cells that are still producing melanin just as they did decades ago.
It is worth noting that highlighting your hair for 40 years did not play a biological role in preserving your color. Hair dye and bleach only affect the dead keratin strands outside of your scalp; they cannot alter or protect the living follicles underneath. Your dark hair is purely a reflection of your wonderful DNA.
As for the reactions of other people, it is understandable to feel embarrassed, but try to view their skepticism as an accidental compliment. Because a natural head of dark hair at 82 is so highly unusual, people naturally assume it must be artificial.
My advice is to tell them the truth proudly. If people choose to believe you, great; if they remain skeptical, let them believe what they want. You have a rare and beautiful trait. Embrace it!
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Hair and the older woman
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