Hair Product for Shine

Man styling his hair with pomade
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Q: I'm currently in the process of growing out my hair, aiming for that Patrick Dempsey look from "Grey's Anatomy". You know, that perfectly tousled yet polished style he rocks. Right now I'm using V05 reworkable putty, which I actually like quite a bit, but I'm running into an issue. I want to achieve more of a glossy, shiny finish without my hair getting stiff or crunchy.
 
I'm looking for something that gives great shine but keeps my hair feeling natural and touchable, almost like it has that healthy, natural luster. I've even wondered if something like Vaseline might work, though I'm not sure that's the best route. Any suggestions for products that can give me that shiny look while keeping my hair soft and flexible?
 
A: What you're describing is a classic styling challenge that many guys face when growing out their hair, especially when transitioning from shorter, textured styles to longer, more polished looks. The Patrick Dempsey look you're going for requires products that provide substantial shine and hold without that dreaded helmet-head feeling.
 
For your specific needs, I'd recommend starting with Citre Shine Highly Polished Gloss Pomade. This product has a thick, almost petroleum jelly-like consistency but comes with a pleasant, refreshing citrus scent that keeps it from feeling too heavy or greasy. What makes this pomade particularly versatile is how it responds to heat. You can apply it to damp hair and then use a blow dryer to activate it, making it incredibly pliable and easy to work with. This technique allows you to shape your hair while it's warm and malleable, then let it set as it cools.
 
Alternatively, you can work the pomade through completely dry hair for a different effect. When applied to dry hair, it adds definition to natural texture, enhances curls if you have any wave pattern, and creates crisp, clean lines for side parts or other styling details. The key is using just enough product. Start with a small amount about the size of a dime and build up gradually until you achieve the desired level of shine and hold.
 
To maximize your results, consider pairing the pomade with Citre Shine Spray Laminator. This product is formulated with fruit oils and serves a dual purpose. First, it adds an extra layer of glossy sheen that really makes your hair catch the light beautifully. Second, it acts as a protective barrier against environmental factors like humidity, wind, and pollution that can dull your hair's natural luster throughout the day.
 
The spray works particularly well when applied to slightly damp hair before blow-drying, as it helps seal the hair cuticle and creates that smooth, reflective surface you're after. You can also use it as a finishing touch on dry, styled hair for an extra boost of shine.
 
If you find that traditional pomades still feel too heavy or stiff for your liking, you might also explore water-based pomades or hybrid styling creams. These formulations typically provide excellent shine and flexibility while being easier to wash out than oil-based products. Some popular options include brands like Layrite, Suavecito, or American Crew's Pomade line.
 
Another technique to consider is the "cocktailing" method, where you mix a small amount of your current V05 putty with a more shine-focused product. This can help you maintain the workability you already enjoy while boosting the glossy finish. Start with your usual amount of putty, then add just a tiny bit of pomade or shine spray to customize the final result.
 
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