Q: I am 56 years old and perfectly normal person when it comes to hair styles. Maybe 20% gray, which is also dyed to a
natural medium ash brown and is medium length. It seems like it has heavy texture, since it takes long time to dry, but once it's
dried, it shiny and silky and - half wavy from the root area - straight at the ends! (Why me Lord?) I've been dying and perming
my hair. Iíve dyed it for just a couple of years but putting in my own perms for several years (since about 1980 or so). Itís not
that I can't go to the salon to get any of these services, but I had a very bad experience in late 70s. My hair was down to the
middle of my back. I wanted my hair to have just little of the body on the back of my flat head. So, I went to a good hairdresser
(per recommendations), and told her what I wanted. To make a long story short, I end up cutting my hair all the way up to my ears.
My hair was fried! My hair is very slow-growing, so it took good 4 years to regrow it. I never went to a hairdresser for another
perm or hair cut again. I learned to do it on my own! So, I have a question for you if you are still willing to help me: My hair
is medium length, and most of the time I have it up in the clip. But sometimes I would like to have it down. I like it flat on the
sides and behind my ears, but with body and curls on the back. Would that be a good idea to just have a perm from the crown of my
hair and down or should I have sides permed also (I don't want crown and bangs permed). Please tell me if this is going to work for
me. ASAP, please! Thank you so very much - in advance, for your response.
A: Thereís no question of my willingness to help, because Iím always willing to help. However, Iím not sure what I can say about
your situation because youíve not given me the right kind of information to make a judgment as to whether the style youíre
describing would be flattering to you.
If youíre asking from a purely theoretical viewpoint my opinion of whether you can simply perm
one section of the hair and create a reasonable looking style, then yes. Partial perms have been used to create a number of very
flattering styles. That being said, they are usually used to add curl to longer areas of hair in creating a style that mixes shorter
and longer lengths. Iím not sure that simply perming the hair at the back of the head will be a very flattering look. It could look
very awkward if the rest of your hair is of a very different wave pattern.
Since I donít know your face shape, how balanced your features are, or your build, itís
impossible for me to picture what styling elements you need to flatter your face. Iím forced to go with assumptions, which may or
may not be correct. I donít even know exactly how your hair is currently cut Ė whether it has layers or is all one length all over the head.
It sounds like you want to add some volume to the hair in back of your head. If you do have
long hair all over the head and want only to perm the back section, I recommend using the largest available perm rods, to avoid
creating a dramatic difference in wave pattern from the rest of your head. Using smaller rods will only create an awkward and
obviously unnatural look in your hairstyle.