Highlights and Streaks for GirlsQ: How old should a girl be to put highlights or streaks in her hair? I'm asking because my daughter is 12 and she has a friend with highlights. Are highlights and coloring safe?
A: Done professionally, highlights and coloring can be safe for a 12-year-old. However, I usually encourage parents to discourage their daughters from starting chemical processing of the hair too early, since these steps create permanent changes in the hair and will begin a long period of required maintenance and regular exposure of the hair to chemicals that can damage the hair if not performed properly or not properly cared for afterward.
Proper aftercare is the biggest issue. The girl in question needs to be responsible enough to be able to properly care for her hair once it has been colored or highlighted. Many color services, especially those that lighten the hair, can leave the hair more porous and less able to retain moisture. Unless properly conditioned every day and styled with the hair's vulnerability in mind, the hair can become badly damaged and look unhealthy. There is no good reason to allow a child to have an expensive hair process without knowing that he or she can properly care for it.
If your daughter is mature enough to be able to properly care for her new hair look, then by all means allow her to get color or highlights if you wish to do so. Just remind her before doing so that getting a permanent color or highlighting means that she will either need to have the color/highlights maintained or live with them while they grow out.
You may want to encourage your daughter to try semi-permanent color or low-lighting with semi-permanent color to give her a new look, without needing to make such a long term commitment to chemical processing.
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